Meet Joy McCrady, MS, LCPC, NCC
You’re not broken, you’re human.
Feeling safe starts with connection, so let me be human with you.
I am no stranger to anxiety and burnout. I've been there, and it stinks. Over 25 years ago, I started a winding career supporting admirals, generals, federal executives, mayors, and CEOs. Life felt like a never-ending roller coaster of tasks that left very little room for what I actually wanted to do with my life. When my husband was injured in Iraq and several loved ones died in quick succession, I realized I needed to attend to something much deeper in my soul.
So I went to therapy. And through that experience, untangling my own history and finding healing, I felt a vocational and spiritual calling to become a therapist and pastoral counselor—to help others go deeper and find hope, healing, and purpose again. It was a process going back to get my masters and pursue advanced training while also providing consultation to others in the government and corporate realm, but I was able to make many choices and bet on myself to make a change to help others differently. That’s where McCrady Counseling & Consulting was born with the vision to help people find healing, grow with purpose, and live wholeheartedly.
I work with folks who usually have it all together—or at least look like they do, but there is a longing to be seen and supported. I help caregivers, professionals, helpers, parents, ministry leaders, service members, and people others rely on. The ones who show up, give, keep going, and quietly ask, “But what about me?”
Sound like You? You’re in the right place.
When you're in the room with me, you'll get an authentic person who genuinely cares about you meeting your goals.
Before starting McCrady Counseling & Consulting in 2019, I worked as a therapist in substance abuse clinics, community mental health, and as a grief counselor for Hospice of the Chesapeake in Maryland. I've supported children, teens, adults, couples, and families through many different types of loss—coordinating grief camps and workshops, co-facilitating support groups, and providing training for county agencies, faith communities, and mental health professionals. I've also served as a guest lecturer at Loyola University Maryland and the Washington School of Psychiatry, teaching on grief and anxiety, and authored articles and a pamphlet called "Supporting Children After Drug-Related Loss." I'm trained in several evidence-based approaches so we can find the right fit for what you need. These approaches include Intensive Short-Term Psychodynamic Therapy (ISTDP) (3-year program), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), mindfulness, polyvagal therapy and somatic techniques.
As a trained pastoral counselor and trauma therapist, I understand how vulnerable it feels to seek help and wonder if the person across from you is actually safe. So I'll be upfront with you.
I am grounded in my Christian faith, which shapes my belief in the emotional healing available to each of us. I believe every person has inherent worth and value, and that we heal in relationship with one another. But here's what that means in our work together: my role is to help you rediscover and reclaim your own identity—not impose mine. I won't "preach at" you, force my beliefs on you, tell you what to do based on my spiritual beliefs, or discuss faith if you don't want to.
Whether you share the same faith, practice a different tradition, or have no religious affiliation at all, you're welcome here. My job is to co-create a relationship where you feel safe, respected, and understood—and to support your goals.
Outside the therapy room, you'll find me spending time with my family, chasing my daughter and therapy-dog-in-training around the yard (that sweet picture is of him as a puppy), serving in my local faith community, reading four books at once (I'm a lifelong learner—aka a nerd), and attempting to bake treats worthy of that famous competition show. I love hiking in the woods and walking next to the ocean. A few years ago, I traveled to Greece and Cyprus to visit where my people came from—all of the photography on this website is from that adventure.
My style
Honest, compassionate, and grounded in what actually helps.
Therapy with me is down-to-earth, collaborative, and honest. I won’t sit silently and blink at you, and I definitely won’t try to “fix” you with a one-size-fits-all solution.
We’ll discern together:
What you want to work on
What goals you want to achieve before therapy ends
What is really going on at a deeper level
What plan is right for you to get honest and clear, heal and build the life you want
And all of you is welcome — You can be silly, serious, anxious, angry, sad, surprised, joyful and anything in between. There can be crying, snotting, raging, cussing, reminiscing, and lots of laughing (dark humor is welcome here).
I have had different training and experience to tailor the work together to what you need.
My guiding principles
Growth
Growth requires the desire to do something differently. You set the pace and I will remind you of where you named you wanted to go.
Trust
Trust is essential and will be built together through consistency, compassion, pacing, and respect in our work together.
Transparency
I strive to provide clear, open communication as we work so we are always clear on your goals, process, and progress. I will get your permission to be direct, interrupt, or slow you down, but will explain why as we move through our work together.
Safety
Healing begins when you genuinely feel heard, seen, and supported. We will pace the work so you feel safe to face the hard stuff to get to the good stuff.
Training & Education
M.S. Clinical Mental Health Counseling & Pastoral Counseling
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) - MD LC9255
National Certified Counselor (NCC)
Certified Clinical Telemental Health Provider (CTMH)
Intensive Short-Term Psychodynamic Therapy (ISTDP) 3-Year Post Graduate Training
EMDR trained with advanced trainings in EMDR & Telehealth, EMDR and grief, attachment-focused EMDR, EMDR for OCD and religious scrupulosity
Trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Polyvagal Therapy
Trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Trained in and pursuing certification in Nutritional & Integrative Mental Health Professional (CIMHP)
Speaking & Writing
I'm passionate about translating clinical knowledge into practical support that actually helps people. Here are some of the ways I've shared that work:
Teaching Future Therapists
Guest lecturer at Loyola University Maryland on grief interventions and creative approaches to working with grieving families
Co-teacher and supervisor at the Washington School of Psychiatry on psychodiagnosis of anxiety and ego adaptive capacity
Training Professionals Who Support Grieving Communities
Maryland Department of Health - 6-hour continuing education on post-vention after suicide loss
Anne Arundel and Washington County Public Schools - supporting students after suicide or overdose loss
Anne Arundel County Department of Aging - navigating grief as a sacred and transformative experience
Healthcare symposiums and conferences - family interventions for grief, working with children and adolescents after traumatic loss
Trainings for Hospice of the Chesapeake volunteers and staff
Supporting Community Directly
Bereaved Parents of the USA - Deaths of despair: grieving the loss of a child by suicide or overdose
Faith communities - finding healing after loss; how spiritual disciplines support mental health; how the church community is essential to support one another’s mental health
National Conference Presentations
Association for Death Education and Counseling (ADEC) - case study on families grieving after drug overdose
American Association of Pastoral Counselors (AAPC) - pastoral counselors as veteran advocates
Published Work
Co-authored the pamphlet "Supporting Children After Drug-Related Loss"
Multiple articles on grief, trauma, and mental health
Interested in a speaking engagement or consultation? Let's talk.